Monday, December 19, 2016

From Thanksgiving to Now

We missed Thanksgiving. Jo spent the holiday chilling at a resort in a coffee plantation in Coorg with her husband and kids instead of masticating turkey with her family in Nebraska, and it was my fault.

It took us ages to get rid of jet lag. For days, various members of the family would drop off into stupor at 4 or 5 in the evening and wake up at 3 in the morning. Poor Evan was the only one who had a regular schedule and it sucked to be him. The three weeks between then and now have been a blur. I'm blaming it on my body muddling up its melatonin.

Evan finished the term and had a very nice winter concert (these things are usually hell to sit through but this year was actually much better). He did have trouble with his teachers towards the end of the term. It is almost impossible to get him to do anything that he doesn't want to, and we can beat him while his teachers can't. So we all counted days till the end of the semester and left it at that. I thought he did a wonderful job on the self-portrait collage from stuff in the recycle can, and that's got to count for something.


Evan's popcorn from the Boy Scouts arrived and Jo and I were mollified to see how pitiful they were. Here is a can of chocolate covered popcorn. The can is small. You open in a find a smaller mylar packet inside. Once you empty it out the popcorn fills less than half the can. That will set you back by $25.

So we apologize to the neighbors who had signed up for popcorn. Almost everyone succeeded in hiding their disappointment at being gypped (sorry dear Roma people - am I insulting you and coopting your culture simultaneously) by the Boy Scouts of America. For his troubles, Evan got a bracelet with a compass that broke in less than 5 minutes.


Vivian's first semester of homeschooling ended well. I mostly enjoyed teaching her math and immensely enjoyed my walks with her. She did some interesting projects with Jo - on Amelia Earhart, women from the civil rights, and propaganda under Hitler. If you are looking to introduce race in America to a nine year old, do consider this book about Claudette Colvin.


To round out her education, Vivian babysat Zizi occasionally (aren't they so cute - leafing through the Tiffany's catalogue together), and wrote with Karen often. Coincidentally, at a time when about a quarter of this country is reeling from having just discovered that another quarter is composed of hypocritical immoral and irrational lowlife, it seems like people are drawing closer to those they trust.

Here they are. Evan, Vivian and Ava, pretending to be mannequins outside a GAP store.


Demolition is Fun

There is this narrow angular covered walkway between the house and the garage that I have hated since the day we bought the house on Lariat Ridge and ten years is a long time to hate something.

Last week Gunaraj and I pulled it down. The roof had a few rotten spots where the walkway had been connected to it. We fixed those and put in fresh tar paper. This week we go back and patch the shingles.


While on the roof I took this photo looking north east over the pool. Not much besides trees even from up here - which is one of the reasons I love this place even though the house is falling apart.

Preaching to the Choir

I'm beginning to worry that I'm going to burn in heaven - lately I'm spending more time in churches than pubs.


Even if it's for Vivian's choir practice. But all that practicing came to fruition recently. She and her group went to Galveston for a overnight trip as featured guests at the Galveston Dickens on the Strand festival (unfortunately it rained most of the time and the poor choristers were very very wet). Then, last weekend, they caroled holiday shoppers at various places around town.  This weekend they had their winter concert. Vivian - I have included a photo of the program so you see what you sang long after that piece of paper is gone.


Today Vivian and her choir group were at the Texas State Capitol for the benefit of the Electoral College. My dear daughter - you were there when the trajectory of history changed. The Texas delegate of the Electoral College pushed Trump over the needed votes while you sang patriotic songs


While Jo and Vivian were at the Capitol for almost five hours this afternoon tearing their hair and hearts out, Evan and I went Christmas shopping. He asked if he could buy this plaque for his mother. Yes, Jo and I have been cursing a lot. Better get used to it, kids - four years is a long time.


Monday, December 05, 2016

His Turdiness

During our recent trip to India Evan mostly stayed true and strong to his desire to not be photographed, especially in family or group shots, to avoid hugs, and to not listen very much. On our second evening in Bangalore we went to the wedding Sangeet ceremony - lots of singing and dancing. Evan wouldn't crack a smile or return anyone's greeting. So Sahiti took him off to a corner to spoil him a little till he felt better.


A couple of mornings later when we were getting dressed for the wedding and Jo was in her saree, he refused to take a family shot with us. So here's the rest of the family without him. Meanwhile he jumped around Suki's house and the best I could get was this.


So he didn't get in any photos with my friends or even the bride and groom. But he did occasionally settle down - as for this photo in Coorg - though it was a rarity.